Monday, August 30, 2010

Sorrow and loss


Nurse Tina and Deb comfort each other as they learn of the loss of two beloved classmates. One, an older gentleman had been a joy to Tina especially, and the other, part of the 'A Team' as Deb called them {Andrew the patient and Andrew the caregiver}.

Deb had befriended them through many shared hours in 7C,the high risk chemo area. Andrew was young for a myeloma patient...probably in his late thirties. He had the most comprehensive understanding of the disease and the meds.

Deb was a certain comforter to Andrew as his own mother could not be here in his last days. She had shown him such love and acceptance.

We came home in somber tears only to meet a walking miracle. A young New York Couple was on the van and when he came here he was totally helpless and paralyzed. Now he is walking and self-sufficient. He does not have myeloma, but Dr. Barlogie worked with his medical team back home and did dual stem cell transplants which seem to have restored him.

3 comments:

  1. Ugh! I hate cancer. I hate it.
    I hate the enemy.
    I love God. Lord, have mercy on these families, nurses, the Darley's.
    We lost our first "cancer buddy" when Stuart had just completed treatment. Our friend had the same rare cancer that Stuart had and the same intense treatment.
    He was 30.
    There isn't much to describe the feeling.
    Why are you still alive? What if you also die? It made me SO muddled about 'why does God heal some and not heal others'. Stuart had survivor's guilt.
    It brings the reality of cancer home.
    It is a dreadful, evil disease.
    But God is bigger - here on earth if we are healed...and certainly in our home to come if we aren't.
    May his glory shine through the life and death of your friends.
    Praying for comfort and peace.

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  2. It is so difficult to watch those you care for suffer. My heart grieves with yours. So hard to understand. Praying for you very hard.
    ♥Bruce & Daria

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  3. Vern,
    Thank you for sharing to good, the interesting and the sad.
    Just know that your (yours and Deb's) prayer warriors are out there asking God for mercies and healing for you both.
    Hope to see you around the office soon.

    Paula

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